A difficult situation that many people have
gone over the years, losing the person you love, when you take a lot of time
with that person becomes part of you and your world, there comes a time when
you realize that you can not be without that person, and when the time you have
to stay away from that person feels like if there was a vacuum arrive.
This experience is difficult for everyone,
everyone's lives in their own way, called "duel" when each person
takes the time to forget and overcome the other person, in my experience, this
is the first time I step on something I can not explain the feeling I had those
days were the worst, has been one of the few most difficult situations that
I've been through, I did not see that coming. I did not know this would happen,
I didn't imagine we could finished, it was a surprise.
One day you think you are fine and doing
well despite having certain problems, when you are in a relationship you do not
see things as people who are outside, everyone thinks things his way and no
fights, it is important realize when the relationship no longer gives more when
you consider it is important to finish on their own mental health. Mentally
wears a difficult relationship, you can not be in a relationship where one of
the two is not happy, everyone should seek their own welfare but thinking about
the other person and not hurting.
Sometimes when you do not expect things
not know how to act, you act on impulse, you say things you do not want, because
these bad emotionally and can not react to news like this, if you are the
person who will end up with the couple you have time to think about they're
going to say, how you will act, and think about what you want and what you
need, and if you are the person who will end, do not have the time to think
about what you want say and do not know how to react. In this situation, my
case was a surprise, not mishandle, but I'm not satisfied with my attitude or
with what I said, people tend to react impulsively, without talking things
right, it is important to take the time and calm to give your point of view and
express yourself.
There are many ways to live this
experience, can bring consequences either good or bad, depends on each person
as alive, in my experience, pas for a short period of depression, which, my
family and friends helped me move forward, I did see that the world not just by
one person, and who loves you will not hurt, just going to want the best for
you, and try to do it, others can go through a major depression in which take
long time to get out of this. Generally, when you go through something, you
ravenous hunger, sleep, do not feel like anything, just think of what happened,
we did wrong, or you think the other person. It feels like torture, you can not
be at peace, others manage these kinds of situations, in my case, I am a
sentimental person, whatever happens, it affects me, others are not so
sentimental and can go through difficult situations and get along without much
work.
It has been nearly two months of what
happened, and if it is true what everyone told me, time heals everything, has
not been much time has passed and still affects me, but over time I have come
to understand many things, this kind of experience you learn a lot, it is becoming
in the past, it is important to do things you love to do, do not stop for
anyone, this experience helped me to fight for what I also want to know that
you can not give everything by a person, that person also has to give
everything for you, was a strong and painful experience, but now I'm more
relaxed, I know that many people go through this and it is important to know
the experiences of each, each one handles it differently and which best serves
to get ahead.
What would you do if you were me?
