Over time

A difficult situation that many people have gone over the years, losing the person you love, when you take a lot of time with that person becomes part of you and your world, there comes a time when you realize that you can not be without that person, and when the time you have to stay away from that person feels like if there was a vacuum arrive.

This experience is difficult for everyone, everyone's lives in their own way, called "duel" when each person takes the time to forget and overcome the other person, in my experience, this is the first time I step on something I can not explain the feeling I had those days were the worst, has been one of the few most difficult situations that I've been through, I did not see that coming. I did not know this would happen, I didn't imagine we could finished, it was a surprise.

One day you think you are fine and doing well despite having certain problems, when you are in a relationship you do not see things as people who are outside, everyone thinks things his way and no fights, it is important realize when the relationship no longer gives more when you consider it is important to finish on their own mental health. Mentally wears a difficult relationship, you can not be in a relationship where one of the two is not happy, everyone should seek their own welfare but thinking about the other person and not hurting.

Sometimes when you do not expect things not know how to act, you act on impulse, you say things you do not want, because these bad emotionally and can not react to news like this, if you are the person who will end up with the couple you have time to think about they're going to say, how you will act, and think about what you want and what you need, and if you are the person who will end, do not have the time to think about what you want say and do not know how to react. In this situation, my case was a surprise, not mishandle, but I'm not satisfied with my attitude or with what I said, people tend to react impulsively, without talking things right, it is important to take the time and calm to give your point of view and express yourself.

There are many ways to live this experience, can bring consequences either good or bad, depends on each person as alive, in my experience, pas for a short period of depression, which, my family and friends helped me move forward, I did see that the world not just by one person, and who loves you will not hurt, just going to want the best for you, and try to do it, others can go through a major depression in which take long time to get out of this. Generally, when you go through something, you ravenous hunger, sleep, do not feel like anything, just think of what happened, we did wrong, or you think the other person. It feels like torture, you can not be at peace, others manage these kinds of situations, in my case, I am a sentimental person, whatever happens, it affects me, others are not so sentimental and can go through difficult situations and get along without much work.

It has been nearly two months of what happened, and if it is true what everyone told me, time heals everything, has not been much time has passed and still affects me, but over time I have come to understand many things, this kind of experience you learn a lot, it is becoming in the past, it is important to do things you love to do, do not stop for anyone, this experience helped me to fight for what I also want to know that you can not give everything by a person, that person also has to give everything for you, was a strong and painful experience, but now I'm more relaxed, I know that many people go through this and it is important to know the experiences of each, each one handles it differently and which best serves to get ahead.

What would you do if you were me?